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So this is my toxic ex, let’s call him “Bradley”. He cheated on me, got caught paying for VIP memberships on Grindr and transgender dating apps, and instead of dealing with his own shit he’s now blowing up my email and trying to paint me as the toxic one.

Quick context on the phone drama that started this exchange:
He refused to release my daughter’s phone from his T-Mobile account and kept blaming me. I finally went into the store myself and T-Mobile told me He had to release it since it was on HIS account. He eventually did… but when I went back to switch the phone over to my account, he had already reported it as lost/stolen so it couldn’t be activated. I had to buy her a whole brand-new phone (and an Apple Watch) out of pocket.

Also important context on the “Chris” accusations:
Bradley has been accusing me of having a 3-year relationship with Chris. That is completely false. Chris is “Rhea’s” husband. Rhea and Chris are separated. Rhea has tried to set me up with Chris multiple times and I have refused every time for two reasons:

1. I have my man from church (“Rooster”) — a godly man who is leading me and my children to Christ.
2. Chris is just not my type at all.

I found out that Rhea and Bradley have been having a relationship themselves. So the two of them have been spreading rumors about me and Chris to make themselves feel better about whatever they’re doing. Not that I care, because they are both dead to me. Rhea WAS my best friend.

Here’s the full email exchange from tonight (Aug 15, 2026):

Me (4:58 PM):
Well, if you hadn’t reported the phone as lost then we could get it done.

Bradley (9:42 PM):
I did not report the phone as lost, TMobile blocked the phone when you tried to activate it on a different network. Second of all I saw your Facebook post, I see all of them. You are not a Christian woman, you are the toxic person not me, and why are you posting the bed I bought from Kevin for Mikey as your new bed? It was not purchased or meant for you. Oh and BTW that bed was at Kevin’s house when I was dating Leah. So you figure that out.

Me (10:07 PM):
It’s my Facebook account, not yours. 🤷‍♀️ And now the bed is mine and at my house while I’m dating Rooster. 💋 Figure THAT out. 🫡

Bradley (10:28 PM):
Oh I’m sure Chris comes by to finger you in the laundry room once in a while. Can’t help it that people you think like you send me your stupid shit. You are fake, a liar and a very toxic person. But I guess you got the rooster so anycockwilldo. I will keep paying for her phone since you can’t

Me (10:38 PM):
If I’m supposedly “so toxic,” you sure are awfully fixated on my sex life. 😂 You and Rhea need to stop spreading rumors about me just to make yourselves feel better about your own relationship.

And since you want to talk about toxicity, let’s not forget your little emotional-connection relationship with Sketchy Chef. 🤷‍♀️

Also, stop projecting. You’re the one living by the “any cock will do” motto, not me.

And since we’re apparently keeping score of what I can and can’t afford, let’s talk about that phone. I just bought Nikole a brand-new phone AND an Apple Watch, because I can afford it. Period. 💅

You don’t know my finances, you don’t know my life, and you definitely don’t know what I’m capable of providing for my kids. So maybe worry a little less about what’s going on in my bedroom, my bank account, and my life, and start worrying a whole lot more about your own. Because at the end of the day, my Rooster is all I need, baby. 🐓😘

Bradley’s final response:
K

He got caught red-handed paying for VIP memberships on Grindr and transgender dating apps, and now he’s projecting, name-calling, and trying to drag me through the mud because he got exposed. Classic toxic ex behavior.
(“Sketchy Chef” was a married woman he met on TikTok, by the way.)
I’m dating a man I met at church. Bradley is out here throwing sexual insults and calling me a liar while he’s the one who got caught on Grindr and trans dating apps, and while he and Rhea are the ones in a relationship spreading lies about me.

The projection is wild.

I’m done entertaining it. Just wanted to document the receipts.😉😎