u/Imaginarycowboy

Image 1 — Half hour repair turned into three days
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Half hour repair turned into three days

My beautiful lady hates Michigan. I hit the gnarliest pot hole last week and ever since then my front end was wobbling. I called a mechanic because I was convinced I just needed an alignment. They were going to charge me $150 to test drive it and $160 if it needed the alignment. After I told my mom she crawled under the car and found this mf loose.

So day one I bought new sway bar links and crawled under the car. No amount of penetration oil or force could get this bolt off. I don’t even know what that top nut? Is.

Day two after work I went at it again. I had cut one of the bushings off and tried to use a dremel to cut through the bolt. I gave up after a few hours and called a mobile mechanic to see if he could come just cut the bolt off. He didn’t show up until midnight and said he couldn’t do anything because the tire wasn’t off, and he’d just come back in the morning.

Day three I woke up earlier than I usually do and waited for hours. It was getting time to when I had to leave for work so I called him and he said “oh are you ready for me to come over?”. Idk why I just assumed he would show up. I told him not to come cause I was gunna try one more time. On my way to work I bought the cheapest hack saw (you can see it in the last pic next to my tire. That things cooked). When I got out I took the tire off (should have done that in the first place but I was lazy) and started sawing. It took like two hours to get through it but it finally exploded off and I got the new part on in ten minutes.

Now I just have to do the other side…

TLDR: I ghosted two mechanics because I did it the hard way

u/Imaginarycowboy — 5 days ago

It really just keeps sucking huh?

Coming up on three weeks since we went no contact and every day is a new pain. I’m feeling emotions I’ve never felt before. It’s like a withdrawal from an addiction. They’re just one phone call away. One text. Five miles.

I want to tell them about all the work I did on my car all by myself. I’ve wanted to call them so many times to help me.

I hate this. I know deep down I ended things because it wasn’t healthy. But man do I miss it. I feel like I shouldn’t be hurting this bad for something I chose to end. I could go back to the cycle right now but what would that do. I don’t even know what I’d do if I saw them right now. Would I hug them? Would I hide? Fawn all over again just to feel secure and loved?

It’s like my insides are playing tug of war endlessly. I miss them- I don’t - I need them- I couldn’t bear to see them- I couldn’t bear to loose them.

This is the worst feeling I’ve ever felt
I miss my friend. The family I grew so close to. The friends I didn’t think I’d have to mourn through all this.

I got used to their validation for so long that being alone is torture. I can’t even fix my car and feel good about it. I just changed a part I didn’t even know existed three days ago.

This just keeps sucking

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u/Imaginarycowboy — 5 days ago

As the title says, I booked a flight with my ex and their friend a few months ago. We planed a trip to New Orleans. The trip is in June and we broke up last week.
I think it’s through spirit airlines? And I think we got the basic economy. Their friend ordered them all together because it was easier at time. My ex and I are no contact but while we were breaking up I asked them to figure that out. Either have the friend try and refund the tickets or see if someone else can buy it off me.

I was informed today that it might not be that simple. This is the first time I’ve ever planed a trip like this, especially so far away from home. I haven’t heard from the friend so I’m assuming they either forgot or are still figuring this out.

What can I do? Should I go anyway and see if the airline can move my seat? Should I just suck it up and kiss that money goodbye? Can basic tickets even be refunded?

I never got sent my ticket but I still have the friends number. I would feel so weird reaching out because non of their friends or family have reached out since the breakup.

Update:
I texted the friend and found out it was spirit! I’m just waiting on a response to see what exactly is happening with the refunds.

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u/Imaginarycowboy — 15 days ago