Advice? am i favoured too much in my family
for context im a twin sister
My twin brother is in a grade above me because he skipped a grade early on (3rd grade)
From when we were kids he used to constantly taunt me
Honestly it's not like i didnt fight back but he did do extreme things and often leading to me constantly callin my parents to intervene.As we got older it slowly reduced but started up again around 15.context: i started seriously strugglin with my mental and physical health during the years from 8th grade to 10th.My grades declined and i was constantly pinned blame for things that made me seem like a bad student (sleepin in class but was due to extremely low blood sugar) constantly skipping school( due to sickness or unable to get out of bed),teachers knew i didnt cause trouble but thought i didnt care abt anything and honestly when tried explainin only made it seem like i was a liar.Now My brother started to see my parents treat me differently.
Maybe more gently? Who knows rlly?. They ended up paying for a tutor (never ended up helpin me much)
Made me drop subjects for my finals, i lost my mind crying abt dropping subjects that i ended up barlely performing good in subjects im good at. (I passed dw💗)
Now im a 11th grader whos retakin my gsces(the way i wanted to orignally) along with my as levels.Here's the part which pisses me off:My brother constantly mocks me whether it be my height (hes 5 11 im 5 5)
My grades,my friends(they are fine he's just bein mean).
Constantly ridculing me for getting pissed off and giving wrong answers in a state of fury to his "quizzes"
Making fun of the fact i struggle to do math
Constantly being either rascist or homophobic or even just misogynistic abt some god knows what.
Im not gonna deny yes he doesnt need to study as much as i do to acheive the grades i want but honestly does that give him the leverage to mock me for everything i do
He also hates the country we live in and refers to us as poor people?????? Idk because we live a very comfortable lifestyle and in a decent country(has major problems but it's not like north korea level bad.)
Im tryin to improve my life and my parents are starting to support me i rlly apperciate i do but it's not like i depend on them entirely? They do go hard on him but he's someone who is carefree abt everything and has a ego.
My parents try to be equal but ends up favourin me more when it comes to emotional support but i end up supporting him when it comes to other things.
He doesnt show up like that for me.
Im somewhat of a cheapskate so i rarely ask for items but he quite likes to buy things so my parents treat hkm with whatever he wants( not sad or jelly abt it i like other things).My parents tend to spend on health or jewels for me (we are south asian and i get sick frequently) i try not to spend money.
He thinks im just some dumbass who doesnt require respect and calls me names fights with me constantly etc.I dont know what to do.