I (18F) started talking to this guy online (he’s legit, don’t worry), and he’s really attractive, kind, hardworking, and passionate—all things I love about him. I think he’s a great person, but I’ve realized I can’t handle the long distance. His personality sometimes clashes with mine, and the emotional instability can get to me. I’m quite unstable myself right now, and I regret jumping into a relationship when I wasn't ready.
Something about the dynamic feels off. We started dating only an hour after we met, so it feels incredibly rushed. Beyond the distance, our styles are very different, yet he still feels "one of a kind." I’m super conflicted; he’s amazing and I don’t want to be an asshole or hurt him, but I’m struggling.
I need to know: Should I leave, or should I give him a chance despite this gut feeling? Ever since we started dating, it feels like my energy has shifted into a negative space, and I don't know if it's because of him or just the situation.