I really tried. But I learned I can’t make boyfriend material into husband material. We just wanted very different things, and I tried to look past them. I could see him as a great boyfriend but not an equal partner to life. Life is hard, dating is easy.
Hi, I’m 27F and have been dealing with mental issues since 15. I felt like I was finally at a place where there was genuinely something wrong with me (instead of, say, depression). So 2 days ago I took my first part of my psychoeducational test, starting with the Wechsler test.
By the end of the sesh, my doctor said something like: my other scores are great, but my working memory is a lot lower compared to my other scores, so we will investigate that more moving forward.
Ever since, it has been interesting to put things into perspective. Maybe this struggle back then was because of that. That one too. Honestly it pretty much sums up my struggles and now I have a number to show for it!! And there was a whole category classified for that!!!!!
I’m not going to excuse every mistake I make on this; a number is a number, but it does explain a lot of things I struggled with. I’m a bit obsessed to learn about this right now BECAUSE it finally explains things.
When I was sharing my findings the day of and yesterday, my bf warned me to not make it my personality and it kinda pissed me off.
Is any of us wrong? I kinda don’t feel supported in this journey but I’m not sure if I’m approaching it wrong. :/