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Image 1 — Are these jeans/outfits work for me post partum?

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Are these jeans/outfits work for me post partum?

I'm 4 months post partum, so it's time to give my elastic waist trousers a well-deservrd break and after a year, return to the jeans game. However, my body has changed a lot post C-section and I still have 5 kg excess weight from my pregnancy ( which feels a lot for my 160 cm height) and I'm breastfeeding. Are these pairs of jeans/outfits work for my current body? Also, how do you avoid that bulk of belly fat dominating when sitting in a high waist jeans?

u/Immediate_Cut8078 — 1 day ago

▲ 19 r/AmIOverreacting

My partner forgot or screwed up all the special dates since I'm a mother. Our son was born in January, no push present, not even a bouqet of flowers or telling he's proud of me. In February, he bought gifts for my birthday but I couldn't get to receiving them because he treated the whole day as a burden, it hurt me and on top he cooked me a birthday dinner half of which HE KNEW that I wouldn't like. Then in March he totally forgot our anniversary and when I gave him my gifts he said it's not on that day but later (last year we celebrated our anniversary on the exact day I gave him my gifts so it felt like gaslighting). And now mothers day was coming up in Hungary, my country of origin. I told him several times that it's on this day, even yesterday and today. And that it's gonna be a first time for me, so an important milestone. He drove past 3 flower shops and still completely ignored. He ruined my first bday as a mother our first anniversary as parents and my first mothers day as a mother. Just in 3 months. His birthday was yesterday and yes although nights are tough with a small baby, I gave him a good celebration, baked for him, bought gifts, prepared gifts with his family and the baby etc. I feel like he doesn't love me any more and I want a divorce. Nobody can give these important milestones back to me. I don't think I deserved spending them crying - repeatedly. Plus I'm worried what kind of pattern it would give to my son about how (not) to love one's partner.

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u/Immediate_Cut8078 — 18 days ago

▲ 115 r/ExclusivelyPumping

My baby was born in January 21st. I had a C-section and could never really satisfactorily breastfeed him contrarty to countless attempts. It fast-tracked me to move in with a Medela Symphony and later on a Momcozy V2 pro on top of it and embrace all new concepts like hospital-level sucking, anti-clots massage etc. etc. Not to mention all those 4 am pumpings. If nights were just feeding, not feeding and pumping it would be wellness at its finest. From the 1st of April, my partner went back to work and since then I'm juggling with pumping and being there for the baby alone. With the advent of sprimg, we gradually try and learn to spend more and more time outdoors. I'm sure the rest of society has absolutely no idea what all this takes to maintain.

But my partner sees it all. I'm not saying he understands all its entailments and had never wasted milk by reheating a too big portion but: today he came home with a dedicated freezer. To the milk. ❤️ First pic is the drawer for milks freezed in February, second is March, last two are April.

It gives me hope that I can hung up the pump sooner than my aon turns 12 months.🙏

u/Immediate_Cut8078 — 25 days ago