u/ImportanceAcademic52

Visiting soon for an arena gig and would love to hear genuine suggestions not listicles?

What it says - is there a specialist garden fire place anywhere in the city or the nearby region?

I will be looking at garden centres etc but they're stupidly overpriced.

I've (40 F) been seeing someone (57 M) casually for a while now. We're very close and there's a great deal of fondness, but it is still casual and no strings. I'm not aware that he's seeing anyone else, and while I suppose he could be, we're in daily communication and it just doesn't seem that way.

Two or three times a month we get in bed, kiss, hold and stroke, there's lots of intimacy, he touches me and gets me to climax. It's hot, I like it, I'm not unsatisfied.

He sometimes has issues staying hard - which I put down to age and confidence. This means we're not having penetrative sex, but that's ok with me - there's affection and desire, and I get to climax.

The part I'm confused about comes when I try to help him to cum - he seems reluctant to get that far, or to find it hard to get there. Sometimes he's nearly there, and will choose to stop. Only on a couple of occasions has he let himself cum, once in my mouth - but he was then very overwhelmed and overstimulated, and I felt like he wasn't happy with things, and we actually didn't see each other for a little longer than usual after that and communication between us was weird.

My past is experiences tell me this is not a skill issue on my part, and I've no reason to believe from the rest of his behaviour that he doesn't desire me etc.

I worry that it's unbalanced and unfair, and I'm confused about why he can't relax, or doesn't want to share an equal amount of pleasure. I'm aware this could be a physical thing, about his ability to climax, not necessarily a decision/choice he's making, or it could be anxiety. I just want to hear what men think is the most likely reason here. What could be going on?