u/Important-Rush1570

I’m getting married next month and obviously seventeen will be apart of my wedding!

I’m walking down the aisle to an instrumental version of
To You (one of my favorite songs). The first time I listened to it I cried so good luck to me…

My fiance and I discussed using Darling as the song to walk down the aisle after the ceremony but I was wondering if you guys had any other ideas!

If you could add time stamps to which parts with the songs I would be SOOO grateful!!!

Thank you!!

I'm supposed to get married NEXT MONTH.
Everything is planned and ready to go.

I love my dog, he's like my son.
I got approved that he can come to the ceremony (I was surprised it seemed they had a no dog policy)
It was a big reason we went this the venue.
We had to hire a dog handler, pick a dog friendly hotel, and other expenses.

That was all a year ago when we picked this venue.
We recently had a meeting to discuss last minute things.
Apparently the person who approved for him to come was not the correct person to approve it.

The person that is in charge of that aspect has just told us dogs are not allowed with no exceptions.

I am absolutely so angry and so upset.
We planned everything around this, chose the venue for this.

I have the original approval in writing not sure if that helps or not.

I sent a follow up email just asking if he can come for a very short amount of time in approved areas and be closely monitored by a handler. Waiting for a reply.

I feel like I'm about to cancel everything and crash out.
Send help what do I do!!!!

Edit: yall im exaggerating obviously or well not obviously I wouldn’t cancel my wedding over this. It’s just they told us last minute and it’s upsetting

Update: 8/11

Good news!!! They are allowing him for the ceremony! So happy they were able to keep their word!

I (30F) have a sister (22F) Sam.
Sam and I have always had rocky relationship. Some days we are besties then there will be an issue and we won’t talk for weeks.

This has been the worst yet.

My maid of honor was planning my bachelorette. It’s a weekend trip.

Sam reached out to me saying she doesn’t think she can go because she has no money. I understood but I wanted her there so I told her I would pay.

I sent in money for myself and Sam. I told Sam that it’s taken care of and how excited I was. I mentioned if she could pitch in for maybe one dinner. Then she starts going off on how she told me she has no money. I just tell her ok I’ll just pay everything for her then. Then she says she never said she would come.

That’s when I get super upset because she never said that and I already paid.

That was 3ish months ago, she has not apologized or spoken to me. When we are in the same places we don’t talk.

Recently we were at our parents for dinner and she whispered a comment about how I’m an insane psychopath.

I didn’t say anything until she left.
I confronted my parents and they told me Sam’s not going to apologize because she thinks she’s done nothing wrong.

I tried to explain my side.

Instead they told me I should have read between the lines and that I should have known how anti social Sam is and that she would never have gone.

They were telling me I need to be the bigger person and just move on or I should apologize.

that set me off.

I told them if Sam doesn’t apologize she will not be coming to my wedding. My wedding is for people that respect and care about me.

My mom started crying, I stormed out.. it was a mess

So WIBTAH if I uninvited my sister to my wedding?

Hello!

Our venue is amazing and we love it but it is a museum so they don’t allow anything hanging on the walls or ceiling.

The one thing I really want is a disco ball and the disco ball lighting!

Any ideas on how that can be done without hanging from the ceiling?

Thanks in advance !