I 18F need advice on my rls with 18M
hi, i’m 18f dating 18m for a bit over a year now. currently our relationship has been all over the place. one reason would be long distance, but the major one is my resentment for him.
when we first started off dating, i found him texting his ex first and i was slightly uncomfortable, so i asked him to remove her. however, it took him some hesitation, saying they were classmates and stuff before he deleted the texts and such. i think thats when i started resenting him because for me, i’ve been cheated on before where my ex got with his ex as well so it really traumatized me and also taught me that i really should not let it slide.
about 2 months later, it made me uncomfy knowing they were still talking on a different app and this time he did remove her without hesitation. i guess it did make me feel better, but the first situation never really went away for me🥲.
i’d like some advice on what i should do? we’re currently on a break now and trying to figure things out, but this is really something i seem to can’t let go of but i don’t know what to do🥲 and i do want to heal and let go of it.