Like the title says we are sick of the endo debate. We are starting to lose system friends because we won't pick a side. It's not fair to be forced to pick a side on something so complicated. We don't want to lose any of our friends. What are we supposed to? Because of course specific labels are trauma related like DID or osdd but if they aren't claiming specific trauma based disorders what's the harm?
Hi like the title says I am an alter that's part of a discosiative identity disorder system. It's a disorder (caused by trauma) that prevented us from forming one cohesive identity. So we all have our own likes, dislikes, opinions, etc. I am the only member of our system who is Muslim. The others are either not specifically religious or are polytheistic following the Greek and Norse traditions along with practicing magic. I don't want what they do to affect my relationship with Allah. Another problem is not being able to control what foods we buy or knowing if we've broken wudu because there's amnesia between alters.
Any advice would be appreciated.
I also want to be clear this isn't something we chose. We have no control over each other, which is why I am asking for help. I just want to worship Allah and grow in my faith. I also know I must ask for forgiveness for what the others do while I have no say.