Partner refused to ground himself after a seizure
I’m at a moral crossroad and was hoping to talk to some people in aviation. My partner had a seizure last winter and refused medical treatment or ground himself. He’s an FO that plays… loosely with the rules. Before we met he said he would do a fair amount of narcotics because in the event of an accident they’d be out of his system by the time it was tested for. The seizure was on video and since then I’ve (not a medical professional) have noticed some… off things that are symptoms of seizures (frequent deja vu, mood swings, flash headaches with an aura). He refuses medical care because he doesn’t want it on his record but I’m at the point where I am going to leave because I feel morally obligated to report him because if something did ever happen I would feel partially responsible knowing all of this. I’m not a nurse and I have a feeling if he was examined he wouldn’t be truthful. Am I being overly dramatic and not minding my own business here? His friends in aviation all partake in drugs and didn’t seem very concerned about his very public seizure.