u/Impressive_War1839

She does a barbering course and needs exactly one person to let her cut their hair but and it seems like i’m the only option because she keeps coming back to me begging me to do it for her. every time i decline because 1. she’s a learner and with my curly afro hair i generally don’t trust anyone with my hair let alone someone who’s newly learning. 2. even though we talk occasionally and were closer before she doesn’t even invite me out, not even to her birthday which i had bought a gift for her. she’s also my ex and currently with one of my friends so again it’s kind of strange i’m even still in contact. she needs this to pass but i don’t feel like i should be obligated to do this for her? AITAH?

i get so hyper aware of people around me sneaking a peek at my phone. i genuinely don’t do anything bad i’m not looking at anything inappropriate but if im doom scrolling on tiktok and find an interesting video ill scroll through the comments, maybe look at the account. i guess depending on the type of content it can give the wrong impression since my algorithm is mostly cosplays, something im deeply connected with.