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[CF4CF] [34F4M] In search of my significant other :)
Hey Everyone,
Here to find someone with whom I feel home :)
And wishing everyone the best too in their search.
About myself
- 34-year-old female from Mysore, residing in Bangalore.
- Mother tongue is Marathi, but I consider myself a true Kannadiga.
- I come from a lovely close-knit family; my parents are the coolest folks ever! :)
- Work as a Product Manager at a reputed IT company. Financially, have done decently well for myself.
- Have two master's degree; was pursuing a third one (part-time course), but will not be completing this one. I now also have an equivalent of a Bachelor's degree in Hindi :P
- Hobbies - I manage to read quite a bit (both fiction & non-fiction) and love watching live shows, especially plays.
- I love travelling and do that quite a bit - Have done 20+ solo trips and been to 14 countries so far.
- I love cooking - I cook for myself every day. And I'm a good cook - the only thing I usually brag about :D
- I'm an eggetarian but my family eats non-veg. I'm not particular about my partner's food preferences.
- I prefer doing the household chores myself, don't have any house-help - I'm a bit of a cleanliness freak.
- It takes me long to get comfortable with anyone but once I open up, I have been told that I'm charming and have a good sense of humour.
- Slim-built and easy on eyes.
- Was "married" for about 6 months to a guy I met on a matrimony site. Divorced with mutual consent for 3.5 years now. He was also CF, this was not the reason for divorce.
- And here are a few things that make me - me :D
- I prefer reading movie / series summary than rather watching it. I usually repeat-watch movies / series I love.
- I rarely drink (perhaps 3-4 times a year) but I do enjoy going to a pub and watching people happily dance.
- I find nights peaceful - one of the things I absolutely love is sitting at a roof-top restaurant late in the night.
- I love lakes, rivers, beaches - I can watch these water bodies & do nothing for hours.
- I'm quite independent and not the kind who would expect her partner to drive her around / pick her up / be with her 24/7.
Partner expectations
- Kindness, intelligence, street-smarts, flexibility are what I deeply value.
- I'm looking for meaningful companionship / long-term relationship / life-partner.
- Reason for wanting a partner - I want someone to roam around with but also to do absolutely nothing with (parallel-play). And most importantly I'm a sucker for hugs, cuddles, cheek kisses and holding hands - I am (or intend to be) a physically clingy partner :)
- Someone who is good / successful at their job and financially sound.
- A south Indian guy (preferably from Karnataka) will be great. I'm open to North Indian guys too.
- Location preferences - South Indian cities preferably Bangalore.
- Someone who can equally participate in daily house-hold chores and cooking. I do not foresee hiring house-help or a cook anytime soon in my life.
- Ideal age would be between 34 - 40. I'm open to guys who are a couple of years younger to me.
- At least 5' 8" tall, I'm 5' 7".
- I do not prefer staying with in-laws.
- Deal breakers
- Smoking, drugs, excessive drinking.
- I am not a fan of having pets like cats & dogs (Sorry for this).
Being child-free
- I have known this for more than 9 years now.
- My parents are also aware and are supportive of my decision.
- Reason - (i) I love the freedom / flexibility in my life and do not want to compromise (ii) It is unfair to force someone to live a life (good or bad) without their consent.
- I am very sure that my decision to be child-free will never change.
u/InSearchOfMySO — 22 hours ago