Vernie ❤️ - finding my new love.

Vernie ❤️ - finding my new love.

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I lost my 11 year old French bulldog in August. My dog was my everything.. We moved to my first apartment together, I bought my first house for him to have a back yard. I didn’t travel without him, when I couldn’t- I didn’t travel for more than 3 days.
I eventually had children, and each time I spent a year off at home with my babies and my boy. He heard their first words, he saw their first steps with me.

He was my everything. This sounds dramatic, but after losing him, I had to go on medication.. & it took me 3 weeks to relearn how to sleep on my own without him.

I found a recuse needing donations, and I had unopened prescription food. So I reached out. & I found Vernie 😭
There were six of them, but her bio I immediately felt connected with, and her adoption closed on my boys birthday. I took it as a sign.

Now I have this gorgeous girl! We’ve had her about a month, but she’s the best thing to ever happen to me.
I don’t think I would have found my way out of a dark pit without her.

I always said I’d never get another dog, but if I did- it would be a dog that could enjoy long walks, hikes, heat, etc without me completely stressing out that they would overheat. I would have happily lived with my dog forever with that limitation- but I feel so much freedom now.

I have days where I wonder what I’m doing with a puppy. We go for walks twice a day, she loves my kids, my oldest has started to do some training with her at night. (Things she already knows, sit, lay down, paw, rollover, centre) stuff like that. I just feel so complete, and I’m so glad I found her ❤️ training her has been so rewarding, she’s so gentle. I’m hoping to make her a therapy dog!

I really understand what all the golden owners are saying! They are great dogs. ❤️

u/Incrimnatinggoats_ — 3 days ago
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As a vet, do you prefer to see animals come from rescues or ethical breeders? & where do you typically acquire your animals?

Genuinely just curious! There’s a lot of public opinion on this subject, and for good reason. I’m curious what someone in the field thinks/feels.

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u/Incrimnatinggoats_ — 1 month ago

For those of you that have lost your frenchie, when did you start to feel better?

I had to say bye to my baby a little over 24 hours ago, and I feel like my heart is going to explode. I can’t eat. Everything makes me cry.
I’ve cried for the last week straight after he got sick, right up until I realized there was nothing else I could do. & the migraine I’ve had for days on end is unbearable. I physically feel like I’m going to throw up, and that my heart is shriveling up inside my chest.

I’m not a big emotional person, so this is even more uncomfortable/foreign to me. & while I’m grateful to have bonded with my boy, and love him to the degree that could even cause this type of pain.

I’m just curious when does it get better? I am nonfunctional.

u/Incrimnatinggoats_ — 1 month ago
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Do vets ever reassure someone is putting their dog down for the right reasons, but they really aren’t sure?

I put my dog down today. He was an 11 year old French bulldog. It started with a seizure, and bloodwork that revealed nothing. Then it turned into ascites. I had his stomach drained, but I was confronted with that ever this is, at 11 it’s not going to be a good prognosis/something worth pursuing treatment for.

I tried relentlessly this last week to find answers, and do anything to save him. This morning he completely stopped eating and drinking, I couldn’t entice him with anything. He was having a hard time holding himself up. He didn’t want to move out of bed, and when I got him up he just laid back down near me. I physically could not watch this, my vibrant boy just seemed so frail.

My dog was my universe. The pace of his demise, and the lack of answers leaving me questioning if I really did the right thing. My dog didn’t slow down in his old age, so this loss is such a shock.

I’m trying to find comfort that he’s at peace and I did the correct thing, but my heart aches. I feel so bad for him :(
I know it’s probably a foolish question, but did I do the right thing? Did the vet assure me for the right reasons?

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u/Incrimnatinggoats_ — 2 months ago
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How do I know if I am making the right choice with euthanasia?

My 11 year old French bulldog had a seizure last Sunday, bloodwork was normal. Slightly low wbc, slightly elevated kidney markers- vet thought this could be the start of kidney disease.

He then stopped eating, and his stomach was bloated. Xray confirmed he had ascites. I had 500ml drained from his abdomen.

Today he will not eat at all, not even his favourite treats.
I’m considering euthanasia today. But I will always wonder if I should have done more, or if I’m doing the right thing.

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u/Incrimnatinggoats_ — 2 months ago

My boy is dying, and there’s nothing I can do.

I’ve exhausted all options/opinions.

My boy is just shy of 11, and he is my everything.. I don’t know how I’ll ever make it without him.. but I’ve learned there’s nothing I can do to fix the inevitable.

How do you live with this? My heart feels like it’s dying. This is worse than any other loss I’ve had yet, I truly feel like I’m dying too.

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u/Incrimnatinggoats_ — 2 months ago
▲ 2 r/SeniorDogsHealth+1 crossposts

10 year old French bulldog, seizure, WBC 4.7, now presenting with ascites.

My 10 year old French bulldog that has no previous conditions other than allergies, had a seizure last Sunday. He bounced back to his usual self, I had blood work done that was unremarkable other than lower WBC.

Since then he has slowly stopped eating, this morning he refused to eat at all, and I noticed his stomach was bloated/he had guarding when touching it.

I brought him to the emerg vet. Testing on the fluid showed nothing. We’ve drained his stomach 500ml. He’s home now with pain meds + steroids.

I’ve spent thousands this week, and have gotten no answers. Is this most likely cancer? What is the prognosis for a dog presenting with new ascites? Is there realistically anything I can do?

I feel like I’m failing my dog :(

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u/Incrimnatinggoats_ — 2 months ago
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Elderly bulldog- WBC of 4.7.

11, French bulldog, male, neutered, otherwise healthy/no previous conditions.

What could this mean? What would you typically think when seeing this result. All other blood work was normal slight elevation in kidney markers, physical exam was good.

He had a seizure earlier in the week, and now has stopped eating. He is otherwise acting normal. I’ve done an additional blood test for 4dx. Waiting for results.

I’m at a loss of what to do, mri is not an option.

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u/Incrimnatinggoats_ — 2 months ago

What brush are you using?

My breeder used a metal comb, so that’s what I purchased for my kitten, but as she ages, I don’t find it’s fine toothed enough to get some spots, and she’s gotten two tiny knots in her fur :(

Looking for suggestions on a better option!

u/Incrimnatinggoats_ — 3 months ago

Started Slynd a little over a week ago… having some side effects. Curious if anyone has had this too?

I started Slynd a little over a week ago, I am sterilized. So I’m taking it for ovarian cysts/endo.

After taking it, I’ve noticed that I literally cannot cope with anything. I am a disaster. I’m crying over everything, I can’t stand being at my job, my children are overwhelming me.

I’ve never had these issues before, I’ve never been depressed. It’s like the equivalent to the baby blues x10.
I see a therapist twice a month, I’ve never discussed these types of issues with her before, because they are truly not a part of my mental state.

Curious if anyone else has dealt with this? I saw my doctor today, and will not be continuing with birth control. I’d take the pain any day over the mental state I’m currently in.

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u/Incrimnatinggoats_ — 3 months ago

When did you get your second?

My ragdoll kitten is the best thing that has ever happened to me. I’m considering getting a second, but I’m worried if I wait too long they won’t bond, OR she won’t be as clingy with me.

Curious when other people got a second? And if it changed the dynamic.

I have a French bulldog as well, and they are close, play/sleep together.

u/Incrimnatinggoats_ — 3 months ago

OB recommended Slynd because of ovarian cysts/endo.

My tubes are removed, so the thought of birth control is sort of less than ideal, as I opted to have them surgically removed to avoid it.

I find traditional birth control puts me in a state of constant PMDD, and I’ve had more a IUD that I have to get surgically removed due to migration. So this is sort of my only option.
I told my OB, I do not want to be emotional, nor do I want to gain weight. I lost 50 pounds after having my babies a couple years ago, and I have been maintaining well.

I’m curious what people’s experience has been if they’ve taken it? My OB raved that people have clearer skin, and often lose a few pounds.

Can anyone chime in here? Thanks in advanced!

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u/Incrimnatinggoats_ — 4 months ago
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I got my lilac bi colour girl today :)

She didn’t want to get in the carrier, and she drove home the entire way with me like this 😭 (I was not driving)
Her personality is so lovely! She didn’t hide at all, she made herself at home right away.
I left her in her room to get adjusted for a couple hours alone, and when I came back, she was sprawled out in the middle of the bed, and started purring when I came over to her. 🥹

I’m SOOO happy.

When you got your ragdoll were they cuddly and confident right away? Or did they hide away?

u/Incrimnatinggoats_ — 5 months ago

How did you start your food rotation after getting your kitten settled at home?

Hoping someone can tell me how to get going with this!

My kitten comes on Royal Canin raw, and purina one.
But after getting her settled at home, so I can be sure the most isn’t upsetting her tummy. (Thinking two weeks)
I’d like to start a wet food rotation with freeze dried toppers.

Curious what others did, and if you used probiotics during this transition?

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u/Incrimnatinggoats_ — 5 months ago