
Slow bonding over time?
These two little taters (5.5 yo neutered male Maverick and 4yo female Mabel) have now had 2 introductions in a neutral bonding pen, and everything was going by the book for nearly 2 hours. And then both times escalated to a pignado which we quickly stopped with a towel before any blood could be shed. They’ve been living side-by-side in a C&C with a divider very peacefully for almost 3 weeks except for the 2 bonding attempts.
In the neutral space, the boy seems to be trying to be dominant, and the girl was giving him space, ignoring him, walking away, etc, then after they had a couple tandem naps and I was getting really hopeful, she decided she didn’t want to give in anymore, and things escalated pretty quickly.
Should I keep trying? Are there some piggies who can eventually settle in after repeated whirls of fur, or is neighbor life inevitable for these two?
Our boy lived peacefully with his girlfriend for 4 years until she crossed the rainbow bridge last month. This new girl we got from the shelter with hopes that she could be his buddy, so we don’t know much about her social history, but she’s friendly and has been well-cared for. We’re completely attached to both now, and we’d love to see them share a space, though we’ll keep them side-by-side if they can’t work it out. How do you know when to call it quits on bonding?