u/Independent-Run9017

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Almost all of my friends are F types.

However, I am hitting a wall with dealing with F types, especially as a woman, since most women are F types.

I realized I cannot physically understand what it is like to be driven by identity and values, as while I may have categorizations of identity and a strong position towards injustice, I act based on objective and contextual logic.

But again and again I am excluded from groups for over intellectualizing things or focusing too much on First Principles.

Essentially, they are offended too easily even when trying to have a normal conversation. This is sad, because I enjoy being around them because they are kind people.

If anybody has advice for how to deal with this in the long-term without deeply offending F types at some point, I would love to know.

Edit: I like many people who are F types and this is not about my close friends. This is about me struggling to interact with broader social groups in my vicinity who might be acquaintances versus close friends.

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u/Independent-Run9017 — 18 days ago