u/Independent_Law_4595

Ive been following all the conversations on here, including all the lists of what virgos want. It describes what my virgo and i have.. yes, I know he's not MY virgo.. just easy to use that description of him while writing this lol... Ive been friends with my virgo for over 2 years. I even ended the friendship because I felt like I was forcing it and he was bread crumbing me. He reached back out a few months later and said he wanted to try again, he missed talking to me, and would be better. We banter, joke, he opens up then closes back down.. up then down, up then down. We have a crazy cool connection. He is so kind, and accepting, non judgemental with me.. which freaks me out coz u guys aren't non judgemental. So, I wonder all the time if he's just saying shit but doesn't mean it. Told me he doesn't want a romantic relationship with me coz those always end, and he doesn't want to risk what we have. I think he said we can even be friends with benefits, if I understand him correctly lol... he wont respond to me for days then suddenly he's back.. im starting to get scared.. is he just playing me????