People who vape

People who vape not being mindful of where they are blowing the smoke or thinking that it’s okay to smoke in public places where smoking cigarettes is banned. If it’s not okay to blow cigarette smoke in people’s faces, why is it okay just because it is strawberry flavoured?

Just to add, second hand vape is not healthy.

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u/Independent_Still468 — 18 hours ago

Sorry but I don’t feel bad for any of the characters in the Polygamist except Mpume

Lindani - Yes she was groomed so I feel bad that she was groomed but the way she acted after, even when she was with him for the money and could have at least shown remorse to Mpume. Why was she also crying at the funeral when she left him to die?? The ending shows that she just lacks self respect and will sleep with anyone so it starts to look less like a product of grooming, and more like a character flaw.

All the wives - They are all fighting for a man who has shown them that he will leave them in the desert without water. He literally abused them. Matilda abandoned her own kids which I kinda get but not really. At least keep in contact with the children. She also forced herself into the situation. Joyce literally killed him which I get but I don’t feel bad for her. She got her payback.

Jonasi - He disrespected women and treated them badly. He was a serial cheat, groomer, abuser, etc

Menzi - he’s literally turning out like the dad and basically killed the dad

Magesh - I get why he supported Jonasi but he also stayed in way longer than he should

Sarah - she played the victim card too much. She also chose to keep the secret and blamed others for it. She was one of the most obnoxious people for me.

Freedom - I liked him but I know think there’s much to feel bad for.

What do you all think? Is there anyone worth feeling bad for?

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u/Independent_Still468 — 3 days ago

WIBTA for cussing out my roommates for entering my room not knowing that I was home

For context, I work in a very busy job and I’m never at home. I can work for 10 hours in a day Monday to Friday. I decided to work from home for the first time. I never lock my room because it can’t lock. I was never given a key. I think there’s something wrong with the knob so it can’t lock. I also didn’t want to ask for a key because I trusted my two roommates and it already took me a month to find a place to rent because of the severe housing crisis. I know people who ended up with nowhere to live so I was treading carefully.

For the first time, I decided to work from home. I was very quiet so my roommates didn’t know. My roommates were fixing stuff around the house and they ended up opening my door to fix the hinges. I never told them there was anything wrong with it because there wasn’t. Why are they fixing the hinges instead of the door knob?

They kept opening the door and at first they didn’t see me until they opened it wide. One of them let out a small shout from fright and I just stared hoping he would get the hint because I was angry. I’m a girl. He’s a guy. What if I wasn’t dressed? Also, now I’m like “does this happen often when I’m not home.”

Around 25% through, he then asked for permission while the other roomate said nothing and I’m like yeah, you already started.

Do I cuss them out after I finish working?

What makes me mad is that they didn’t even knock first or send me a text message to let me know that they would be opening my room door especially because my door can’t lock.

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u/Independent_Still468 — 17 days ago

AITA for not repaying my coworker back for paying for our holiday

My coworkers were planning a holiday. We agreed we would go to Spain. I was happy with that as I have never been to Spain. A few of them planned the trip with us who agreed to go to Spain on a specific date. The group decided to change it to Germany because Spain would be hard to plan. I agreed to Spain not Germany. I’ve been to Germany multiple times. How can you send me an invoice with the title payment is €X for trip to Germany instead of firstly communicating the changes and reasking everyone if they want to come. I didn’t want to go anymore but he said he already paid and split the money evenly so if I pull out, it will affect everyone. I feel like he ITA for not communicating.

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u/Independent_Still468 — 25 days ago