u/Independent_Tea_569

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Calling the cops

A year ago I had to call the cops on my alcoholic partner he drove through town on a bare rim starting fires and there was a lot of cops at the house trying to figure out what was going on none of them actually saw him driving but I didn’t know it at the moment I called it in saying I was a neighbor and saw him walk down the street I figured it’s better they arrest him and get it over with well now all they have on him is that phone call and he’s upset at me because he says he wouldn’t have been caught otherwise and he just doesn’t understand where I’m coming from mind you that was his 3rd dui ever and he’s now on his 5th. He got 1 in 2019 , 3 in 2025 and 1 this month………. But that one I called in is what’s gonna land him in prison he says.. has nothing to do with his alcoholism

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u/Independent_Tea_569 — 24 days ago

Question about serpentine belt

Hello everyone as someone who doesn’t know much about vehicles I’m gonna try to change the serpentine belt but I can’t find the Bando brand I want to change it this weekend do yall think it’s ok to go with Gates brand instead? 2021 sr5 premium

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u/Independent_Tea_569 — 2 months ago
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After 14 years of being with my alcoholic partner and putting up with all the mistreatment which included waking me up in the middle of the night frequently when I have always worked an early shift I finally put my foot down 1 year ago. We live in a home owned by his mother and it’s in a trust with our girls names as the beneficiaries so basically we told him either stay sober or get out. I won’t lie I’ve given him many chances in this one year span to come back and try to be sober after he promises me the world. I know what the outcome is going to be each and every time but somehow I still find myself devastated every time to the point where I’m like this hurts waaaay too much. I see a lot of people say they feel disgusted by their partner but I’m not after all this time and I honestly hate myself for it because at this point I should but why don’t I?

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u/Independent_Tea_569 — 2 months ago