Ok I don’t complain about loud music/people. We live in nyc and I get that (born and raised). HOWEVER!!!! It’s 230am and the music STARTED like 15mins ago, where is it even coming from? And it doesn’t sound like a persons house or car. This is like nightclub with base. I live on center blvd (6yrs now) and this is the first time I’ve heard music this loud and also starting after 2am. Any ideas????
So, this lady posted a post that said, "Not having children is the best decision I’ve ever made, my life is better for it," and then the next line said, "Having children is the best decision you ever made, your life is better for it." She was literally saying whatever decision you personally make is the best decision for you personally… yet the comments were riddled with parents and people who want to be parents saying, "Oh, making your childless life your whole identity," and, "The only reason you’re on this earth is to procreate; without having children, you’re useless," and, "If we don’t have children and we celebrate your choices, then that just means that in 100 years, the human race would be gone."
She literally said any choice that you make for yourself is the best choice that you can make for yourself, and the parents still had a full issue with it. It’s like, if you’re so happy with your children and living your life, then get off of the internet complaining about people who don’t have children. Go be happy with your children, or go take care of your children.
My personal friends who have children literally never judge me. They laugh and say, "Girl, if I could go back, I would make the same choice." I know they love their kids, and I love their kids, but they never say like, "Oh, you should change your mind," "You should have babies," or, "You’re miserable," whatever. But the people on the internet—and maybe they’re just trolls—it’s just always so negative. Everyone does not desire to be a parent, and sadly, some women and men who desire to be parents cannot for a physical reason. So, why would they just continuously come online and spew that hate? I have never hated a mother or a father for deciding to have children; that’s your business and your prerogative. But why do they hate us so bad for deciding not to have children?