Grade 7 Sexual Health - Students' Distress
Hi!
I’m a fairly new teacher who teaches Grade 7 Health, which includes sexual health education.
Our sexual health curriculum covers topics such as puberty, safer sex, contraception, STIs, consent, gender diversity, gender-based violence, and online safety.
I’ve noticed that my male students seem to be much more uncomfortable discussing sexual health and puberty than I expected.
This past year I had multiple boys refuse to attend sexual health classes, even when their parents wanted them to participate. This year, about 50% of the boys tried to get out of the unit. While the girls were all fine with participating.
Many were so uncomfortable that they tried to leave or avoid the class. Their parents had to speak with them to tell them they had to participate.
The reactions have sometimes been extreme. One student threw a chair because he had label a diagram of a penis. Another student had to call to go home after feeling sick because we talked about what an IUD was.
I expected students to be silly, embarrassed, uncomfortable. But I didn’t expect was: fainting, crying, running away, refusal, and even throwing furniture.
I’m curious whether other teachers have noticed this as well. Is this generational difference, or am I just unusually uncomfortable group of Grade 7 students? Also does anyone have any suggestions for how to navigate this in the future?