Wanting to repair relationship with my mom on Mothers day- need help/advice.
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My (32 F) mom, who I believe to be a narcissist of some degree, has stopped speaking to me. it's been a year now. I live away from her so she doesn't know anything about how I'm doing. Yet has the audacity to badmouth me to other people willing to listen to her. Constantly playing the victim card, constantly lying about "the things I did". When all I did was call her out on her behavior and tell her my truth and how I was feeling at the time.
Not the first time she stopped speaking to me by the way. It's her way of manipulation, making me feel bad for whatever she wants me to feel bad for.
Because of her, my father who's an enabler won't talk to me either for the fear of my mother.
I'm upset not for the fact that she's the way she is, more for the fact that I've basically lost contact with my side of the family as noone listens to the daughter, always sides with the aging mom.
I've tried to do everything to try and get her forgiveness, only because I feel so lonely. Nothing worked. I'm upset and one year later I'm here wondering if talking to her now will change anything.