Am i overthinking or are people shitty in general?
For context, i LOVE dressing up. I need to put on my best clothes and makeup when i step outside because why not? And fyi i dont do it for the male gaze. (I couldn't care less abt them and i dont want anyones man, thanks)
I get picked on alot at my workplace and so far in a team of 15 people 3 have already started yapayapa about me. This one woman used to pick on me on my clothes (just because you think a man is around whom your whole life should revolve around and you dress for the men, it doesnt mean every freaking person does that too) this one was constant until i escalated it to my managers. Ive stopped interacting with her although she is my senior, angways, good riddance. A male has started his bullcrap now and now he is targeting my work. ( oh also i am a fresher and he a manager and i havent worked with him directly) and a gurl who is just here for the gossip (every focking day) does hihihihi when the guy picks on me. Niga i be cryin at my desk like leave me alone. I am so sick of this bullcrap i dont want to be in corporate anymore (bcs this is my condition in my 1st year here) because wtf are these bullies. Also is it like this everywhere? Hiw do iset my boundaries at workplace such that it doesnt affect ky trajectory? The day i need to go to my office i dread it because of these people.