مامات جده، شو بتعملوا؟ ايش الactivities اللي تعملوها لنفسكم؟ عندكم قروبات social او clubs? فين تلاقو صحبات وتتعرفوا على ناس جديده؟
انا دخلت قوقعه مع الامومه وابغى اطلع منها وبدور activities في جده ما تكون cafes or malls/shopping
مع الدراسه برا من عمر صغير والعيشه لحالي وتحمل المسؤوليات (سواء انطلب مني او لا، عند اهلي او بيتي) والأمومة، احس ان كل شي اثر على طاقتي الأنثوية
كيف تغذوا طاقتكم الانثويه؟ ايش تعملوا
I am 32, I never dyed my hair in all 32 years until two days ago ..
My natural hair color is dark brown-ish to black, with cold undertone. In the past 5 yrs, more and more grey hairs appeared at the front, especially the sides and I suddenly got the urge to cover them. I usually think things through but this time I failed myself…
I made the mistake of doing it at home (following family member advice) and it turned out horribly. I only dyed the front section thinking only grey hairs will be colored.. but it dyed my actual dark hair and made it lighter, orange-ish and brassy especially at the roots. The warm tone clashed terribly with my skin tone.
I went to the salon to fix it, we dyed it dark grey brown (cold undertone). It turned out good, something I can live with at least until it all grows out.
I don’t plan to dye my hair ever again, I am okay with grey hairs now and I wish I could go back in time and not do it. The hair specialist told me I can do things normal as I used to, like using normal shampoo, do hair masks, … etc until my hair grows out .
My two questions for those with experience:
from now until it grows out, is it possible the color fades and my hair becomes lighter? What should I do in that case? This is giving me anxiety just thinking about it, the thought of having to maintain my hair and continue to color it forever
In certain lighting, I still see glimpses of “red” or “warm brown”, and I hate looking at it. Is there anything I can do about it that is simple without dying it again? Or should I just be patient for 2 years until it grows out 🥹