u/Infinite_Box_3069

Having Misophonia with only ONE person?

hi all! I searched through this sub but couldn't find anything like this so if anyone has a similar experience??

I have misophonia with only ONE person. I swear to God you could surround me with 100 old people eating with their mouths open and I would be disgusted sure, but fine. I listen to ASMR regularly, not particularly fond of mouth sounds but whatever.

But this one person, my (not bio) mom drives me completely insane. If she starts sniffling I have to leave the room. I sit on the farthest side of the table from her whenever we have meals. If I'm eating and she starts to sit down at the same table at this point I just make an excuse and leave. She usually gets offended and then confronts me about 'not wanting to spend time with her' no matter what I tell her.

She chews with her mouth wide open and constantly smacks her lips. I can't even think about her talking while eating without getting goosebumps because it just gets so much worse. She constantly tries to make conversation while she's eating and just talks with food in her mouth, smacks her lips loudly, and just makes all sorts of noises. I have 7 siblings and each of us tell her to eat with her mouth closed (politely ofc) at least once a week for the last million years. She's in complete denial, she doesn't believe us at all and usually stalks off and refuses to talk to us because she gets so offended.

She has some breathing problem which (I acknowledge its a medical condition and not her fault but God it makes me angry) means she's constantly huffing and breathing loudly, like obnoxiously loud. Like I'm studying on my computer and in the same room, I can hear her breathing over my thoughts.

The same breathing problem means she's constantly congested. Her doctor gave her nasal spray but she refuses to use it because of "dangerous chemicals". Just constant sniffing. Any time of year, hour, whatever. I feel this intense almost loathing when she walks past and I'm just studying and though I feel bad, it drives me insane. Just sitting in a chair, and then I hear her enter the room and I'm already mad, just constant *shuffle, shuffle* *sniffling* *snorts* *smacks lips* *loud breathing*.

Even though my dad and one of my brothers act similarly, I'm not affected at all. The misophonia I have with her is more disgust and rage. I think maybe her general struggle with hygiene could be making it worse for me, she didn't use deodorant or shampoo for years and her lack of cleanliness or decorum maybe makes it worse?

Anyway, thanks for the reading the rant, sorry it got long! If you have any suggestions, please, its really affecting my relationship with her

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u/Infinite_Box_3069 — 11 hours ago
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What do I need for a 3rd class med when diagnosed with Anxiety?

hi all!

I'm 16 and just starting flight training for my private pilot's license and hoping to get my 3rd class med cert. In the process of submitting the MedXpress form, I was going through my medical history and found out that I was diagnosed with Generalized Anxiety Disorder?

I had no idea. I don't know where or when I got diagnosed, just that it is listed under my conditions on my physician's portal.

I didn't think much of it and just included it on the MedXpress form but now I'm worried. I can qualify for the FastTrack but do I need a current Clinical Progress note? I haven't see a physician in the last 90 days so I assume I would need to get an appointment to get a note. If I find whatever appointment I was diagnosed with this, could I just bring the after-visit summary? Thanks!

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u/Infinite_Box_3069 — 12 hours ago

Personal Chef + Housekeeper for a week vacation in Maui?

Hi! We are a family of 10 with our own unit we are going to be using for a week. Where would we find someone who could both make the meals and clean/do laundry for a week? We would like to avoid having to hire both a housekeeper and a chef seperately!

thanks!

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u/Infinite_Box_3069 — 8 days ago