u/InformationUnique313

My husband of 30 years passed suddenly on June 11th which was shocking. I've had to learn to do a lot of things in life that he took care of for us. The other day I was getting ready to mow the lawn for the first time ever when I saw a Praying Mantis hanging out on the garage door. I tried to move him so I could open the garage door to get the mower but he wasnt having it. We were in a stand off for about an hour when it suddenly occurred to me that I had NEVER seen one the entire 2 decades we've lived in this house. I think the little dude was my husband checking up on me . That was really comforting whether its the truth or not. Dont know how to post a photo so I will try and put it in the comments.

Any idea how long people languish on this waitlist? This is so frustrating.