u/InnerAd8202

saw a reel about how you can get a hinge report and thought to try it 😂

i matched with someone on hinge, i wasn’t looking for anything serious at all, and thats what they say, things happen when you’re not expecting them at all. Matched with a girl, went out on a date and just clicked as if its all meant to be. Suddenly didn’t wanna see others or flirt w others.

it was still termed ‘casual’ we used to text throughout the day, watch movies, everything felt so real. we had said we like each other, this really did feel different, we didn’t even get past 3rd base, instead we used to cuddle and talk about how nice it is. I was ready to take it slow. I ended things with all my fwbs, deleted hinge and thought i’d finally get out of this loop.

And 2 days after she said how perfect she thinks this is, suddenly she ended things cuz she isn’t over her ex. How does that work? Don’t you know this before entering into this phase with someone where you’re almost together and it isn’t a casual at all.

cutting your entire roster off for someone and then things not working out has to be the top 5 worst experiences of all time. I realise completely how hinge is a never ending cycle cuz now i’m gonna go on dates to get over this, for what? until something like this happens again?

Made a new account 3 weeks ago, overwhelmed with all the attention again, and although its fun on the surface level to get girls, i feel so dull and heartbroken from within.

after my last post on this sub where i had my total number of hinge matches available, i didn’t get the advices or conversations i potentially seeked through that post but got minimum 100 dms wanting to see my profile, asking for tips to get matches.

For context, im (m20) from delhi, been active on hinge from 8-9 months on and off and have had 310+ matches.

I believe hinge (or any dating app for that matter) is a platform where you have to be perfomative and put on a nice first impression cuz thats what its like especially for guys. Girls get thousands of likes and they’ll see your profile for 2 secs so the first picture and the first prompt has to be the best.

My suggestions - 1 mirror selfie at max

Avoid shirtless gym flexing pics unless you’re very lean and aesthetic. Thats what works.

Use clear pictures clicked at nice locations, wearing good clothes, preferably shirts.

Have atleast 1 smiling photo.

Use atleast 1 relatable and funny prompt which could strike a conversation, don’t be very niche and specific.

Then of course, it depends on where you live and how active the people near you are on such apps.

You can toggle the dealbreaker button on and off, it shows ur profile to more people when you switch off the dealbreaker (for age distance both)

If you think you do not look the best, thats fine as well. Start working on your skin and your body, build a nice wardrobe and dress better. Not to get matches, this is gonna boost your confidence in every aspect and getting girls is a by product then.

Happy swiping!

Hi guys, i know this is not as big of a ‘scam’.

but maybe anyone here could be of help by maybe scaring the guy with some legal message or unity dikhaake text/call him until he can’t take it anymore lmaoo.

so, i was going for the Dc Rcb game in del last monday, paid 50% adv to this guy (6k rupees) who later didn’t send us the tickets. He kept on saying he was reselling and himself got scammed (which we can tell now, is a lie). He replied to us delaying it everyday saying ill refund you the money today, said the same thing for a week and then blocked me and my friend.

this is the number - +91 90635 96075

Is there anything we could do? he also sent his aadhar card before (which maybe fake or someone else’s)

I (m20) am from delhi.

I have been on hinge for 5 months now on and off (got banned and stopped using for a while). I do get decent amount of matches and I have met a few girls as well. Not looking for anything really serious which i cleared beforehand always. It was all fun and games initially and I loved the attention since it was new. Now, its like a habit, a 2nd nature to me. I pause my account to stop using hinge, but after 2 weeks i find myself back on the app. Ive had a few casuals during this time and TALKED to sm girls idek. Now when I think ive had my fun and maybe i can date again, its so difficult to pursue someone and be serious in a talking stage. Hinge has also given me the illusion of ‘someone better being out there’.

for guys who’re 25+ and have had casual fun in their college life, how do you get back to serious dating? Do you not miss this chill and easy going life? I think I have MASSIVE commitment issues now. Should I just delete it for once? or do I wait for me to naturally click w someone to the extent where the thought of it being ‘boring’ exists no more.

Also, open to any questions if any of you guys wanna know smth:)