u/Inside-Proof-2006 — reddlx

32F& 33M been together for ever but multiple awful boundaries crossed by him. Justified them and now stone walls me. Only communicating or pretending affection for sex.

Have kids together but I'm not trying to be ignored and raising my kid alone. Or competing with his past who btw I've got a restraining order on and for years continues to stalk, turn their kid shadier me and manipulate him. On top of it he doesn't care about her but why years later so emotionally responsive.

His distance (random but frequent) and literall no convo, projecting, deflecting and discrediting the years of infidelity, years of my loyalty and years of what I put in to my step kids that their own mom's couldn't do it. Also when angry - his words like even just waking up.... His words are so nasty.. Claiming he said study later that day when he didn't... And that it's bc of me and ALWAYS something. So I'm shutting down while holding down being a mom, cooking & cleaning. I just was ALWAYS right when this feeling was in my gut. It's been here and my intuition is screaming.... P all he does is blame me, switch my words and shift by responding to my soft spoken genuine Conversational approach.... With annoyance, and anything he can to pick at me..