u/IntentionArtistic781

I am not new to therapy. I have had a few different therapists over the past 10 years and just started seeing a new one virtually. I have had three sessions. Here are some things that aren't sitting right with me, I can't tell if this is just a different approach or are red flags.

Lots of silence. He told me he isnt going to enable my behavior of waiting to be asked specific questions. (I told him in the past therapy has been chit chatty)

Answered his phone in 2nd session - cut me off mid sentence in a pretty big deal thing that I was explaining

Third session - answered phone and then got up to answer the door. He came back and then we started talking again. I started to tear up talking about something and he changed the subject back to an earlier topic?

Should I cancel my upcoming appts or what is going on?

Apartment living is going to be difficult if not impossible I imagine. Perfect situation would be renting a nice home with a yard.

Complications in my current situation have me considering a move, divorce, leaving a house with a huge yard etc. I am currently in Central Upstate NY. Would prefer East Coast.

I am female in early 30s so would like access to things to do but don't really go out to clubs and stuff anymore.

I have semi estranged family in Tennessee and family in Orlando. Orlando is not ideal as it's too touristy and my family is not super stable.