u/Interesting-Cat5198

Me and my best friend have a crush on each other and both want to try dating eachother, the thing is Im ace, I dont know where im at on the spectrum but I am sure Im on there. Im 18 and she is 17 and because Im ace I dont even know if it will be something that could disappoint her (I guess it very much could) because it sounds like a dream to me, anyway we are not even officially together and I have no idea when is a good time to tell her, I dont want to lead her on cause I know it could be a deal breaker for some people but it something I rather not talk about with people who have nothing to do with it so it feels weird saying it before we even ever went on a proper date.

Any tips?

I did it at home a got a kit with oil which was amazing but I finished it and I have no idea what other oil is good to soften them and is ok to put around the eyes.