u/Interesting-Walk5854

I posted yesterday a photo of a Filipina doing the dishes. She was nice and seemed feminine, kind and a happy person.

Well, as another Pbro recommends in his guide, I proposed to have a videocall before dating. She was hesitant and I started to suspect. After some hours she just messaged me and confesed she is trans, so biological man.

How brutal is the fact that trans women (biological men) do actually behave more feminine than biological women. Not only this but their attitude is more attractive to men. Many guys commented that they were turned on, although they couldn't see the face. To be honest she/he as trans has a good woman body, but I was more attracted towards her feminine attitude.

He's 40 years old, has been diagnosed with mental illness, and still lives with my parents. But he also has psychopathic personality traits. He doesn't respect anyone; he insults, harasses, gets drunk constantly, enters rooms without permission, doesn't let others sleep, yells, doesn't respect boundaries, doesn't cooperate, complains constantly, and even hits my parents and pets. It's like a parasite, but one that really makes life miserable and wanting yourself to be dead.

Legally there's no solution, considering our country laws, and only way is for him to live alone but my mother always overprotected him, even at his old age. My parents are having empathy towards a person that made their life literally miserable. I just can't have empathy anymore, it solves nothing, it doesn't stop the pain, his violence or abuse. There have been occasions where his violence went further, so it wouldn't be very rare that some day he kills someone.

I know other people with mental illnesses who work, collaborate at home or don't do these things with their families. For everyone's sake, I think he should be in a psychiatric hospital, living alone, or dead. In fact, thinking it's better for him to be dead is an opinion developed through experience and feeling the pain constantly, not an emotional reaction. At least he would let my parents live in peace for the rest of their lives.

It sounds harsh, but I think that's how hard life is. I don't even feel guilty, because I know most people would feel the same if they were in the same situation. Even my parents probably think the same way but they don't dare to say it aloud.

I am tall for Phillipines standards (185cm), measured in those pharmacy machines, and I would preffer a woman who is at least 165cm, so that the height difference is not too big.

So in my last 5 dates 4 of the women lied about their height. One said she is 170cm in her profile and she is maybe 160cm, maybe less. Usually they place at least 5 cm plus their real height.

Most of the profiles have the height of the person, in the "About me section". I can usually tell someone's height because I have relatives, ex girlfriends or friends whose height I know.

I'm kind of tired, not sure if they do it placing a random height or to look more desirable or what. Furthermore, if they lie in the profiles is a bad beginning and turn off.

Is there a solution for this?

Rep Anna Paulina asking for MK Ultra files. The other politician talking in Joe Rogan podcast and other big newspapers about aliens and ufos.

The White House X account pushing UFO videos on X (extremely bad quality videos), and the supposed release of documents and videos (most were already known) on war.gov/ufos

Hundreds of X accounts, maybe bots or paid, talking about UFOs.

This is propaganda, flooding, it works and they are organized, with almost unlimited resources. Either you do something against it or you lose (people forget fighting for Epstein files to be released and having justice).

Only one day people were talking that all this about UFOs is just a distraction from the Epstein files. But people already started to forget.

I'm genuinely curious. Am I the only one who see all this a too obvious operation to divert attention from Epstein, the Iran war or something else? Why suddenly these politicians start talking about aliens and Mk ultra and not Epstein? What is this all about?

I'm genuinely curious. I know there are lot of women from Ppbros countries reading in this sub. Is it to meet men?

Before becoming a PPbro, my motivation was to have a wife and children. But I think that's a thing of the past; it's not so easy to achieve today, not even in PPbro countries.

My life is already sorted, and I don't need my partner to work. In fact, a woman with me would have her life and her children's lives all sorted. But I don't think it's right that the woman does absolutely nothing and only wants privileges, which is what I find.

I see families that seem happy, with wives and children. But I also know of cases where there have been brutal breakups or divorces. In many cases, the man comes out worse off because he used to rely solely on his partner. In some cases, the man does not recover for decades, or dies already sunk emotionaly or economicaly. They go to a Ppbro country, with no family, only with the wife as the social support.

Thing is you can't control the current social situation (the influence of radical feminism, social media, growing hatred towards men, laws, etc.). I also don't think there are many countries where this doesn't happen without having to make a radical life change, like going to a tribe or some isolated country or island.

In the past the deal was: man provides with work and money; woman contributes with house and kids work. But the deal now is: man pays most of the things (which costs him his past, effort, time), but the woman doesn't have to contribute. Even if you are willing to play the current game, there's no quaranty. Deal is much worse.

So at the end right now I don't really want to have children. Maybe if I'm very sure or have some plan in case things go wrong, but I doubt it.

That said, I'm sure other men and in other circunstances can achieve the dream. For me there's no good deal anymore and the risk of losing what you got with effort and time is too big.

Serious question. In my experience, it's best to avoid Filipinas who have had previous foreign partners, but I could be wrong. Reason is that they could be selecting for wealth/provider man, not values or shared goals, and you could need lot of time to realize her real intentions. What's your experience?

It happened to me the love bombing and it was brutal. First time I had no experience with that and I felt so hard in the trap, didn't notice after two years.

I wonder if this is happening more frequently in South East Asia for some reason. As foreigners are in short supply, women have more competition and need to be more aggressive.

Also, as conflict avoidant cultures and less assertive, maybe Asian women tend to use more manipulative tactics, maybe also more intense love bombing tactics to attract the "wealthy" foreigner.

Did you guys experience love bombing?

I mean doesn't matter or is a massive disadvantage. We could say below 173 cm is short.

Because of the loneliness. You may find a woman but this may not make you happy in the long term. Because of the cultural differences, things could be more difficult.

You leave your parents/family behind. Social support is gone.

The woman you find may take advantage of you. The "better treatment" some guys talk about is often only in the beginning, maybe the first 6 months or up to 2 years.

You are alone, you have no social support in a foreign country.

Still is a price you pay for having better dating options.

I'm looking for a serious relationship and I'd like to have children.

There's a woman who seems very interested in me; she's attractive and works. She is sweet and seems interested, she asks a lot of questions. 27 years old.

She has a 3-year-old son.

We haven't gone on a date yet; we've only talked online.

Is it really such a bad idea to have a serious relationship with a Filipina mother, as some people say? I've never dated a single mother before.

Let's have a friendly discussion.

There's been a lot of talk about the manosphere, but I suspect there's a growing movement (the femosphere), not only in the West, but also in PPbros countries, including the Philippines, but Southeast Asia in general.

women who consume content about how to use men for their money, women who call themselves feminists, who say they're oppressed, who have a negative view of men.

I've noticed that it's becoming increasingly common in PPbros countries. What do you think?