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My ex gf & I have been in a relationship for 3.5 years, we ended the relationship because I changed my career a year ago, i need a year to get settled completly, she was supporting too but 2 month before she got an arranged marriage proposal from her family and her family convinced her that I am not good for her. She easily got convinced, she blocked me from everywhere, she moved on from me completely and getting married soon. Now, I have a question whether she was in love or she was pretending, because I still can't sleep and digest. She blocked me from everywhere. Last time when I called her, she was laughing and cold. I can't understand how can a person who made so many promises and used to talk daily, changed suddenly. So, can you tell me?

My ex gf and I were in deeply love, I just shifted my career to new field so not earn as well to get married, I need 2 more years to settle down completely. She got an arranged marriage proposal from her family and the guy is in army and her family convieced her then she blocked me from everywhere. But, I miss her alot. We made so many promises together. I don't know how she forgot 3.5 years of relationship so easily. I just want to call her and say that I am missing you alot. I can't help me out.

How do people make you feel like a heaven for 3.5 years, they will make you believe that they are the one but all of a sudden, they accept other if they find better and make you feel shit for expressing. Then how come will you believe anyone in the future whether they really mean it or pretend it?