u/Itchy-Assistant-46

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Would you a GF agree to sleepover BF house but with the fact that he shares room with the parents as other rooms are occupied by siblings including living room

- your bf said its okay and that his family is chill

-he has his "corner" sleep on double deck bed with his desktop set up below

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u/Itchy-Assistant-46 — 4 days ago
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Is it normal/acceptable for a new GF age 24F of 2 months staying over with bf age 25M that shares room with his parents? And staying over 4-5times a week?

Context/FACTS:

-House is BTO 3room flat

-1 Sibling sleeping in living room, 2 silbings in common room and another sibling in master bedroom with parents

-Started bringing gf to stay over since late janurary (do the math) mostly come in after 12am

-Often times when parents were asked from other siblings about her "scheduled" stays they are unaware till the last minute e.g at night

-Despite the partner leaving house early on a normal working day, gf able to sleep through in the masterbed room until its HER time to leave

- First Day of CNY (Feb) came to visit with the reason for possibly not able to come for subsequent visiting days but still came in the end, stayed over as well in feb.

-The parents are traditional, kind, and heavily conflict-avoidant (they play the "super chill" card just to keep the peace and avoid a blowout)

there were many other cases and scenarios of her bizarre behaviour but shall not be specific and focus on these main points

Feelings? Morals? Judgments? Conclusions?

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u/Itchy-Assistant-46 — 5 days ago

Is it normal/acceptable for a new GF age 24F of 2 months staying over with bf age 25M that shares room with his parents? And staying over 4-5times a week?

Context/FACTS:

-House is BTO 3room flat

-1 Sibling sleeping in living room, 2 silbings in common room and another sibling in master bedroom with parents

-Started bringing gf to stay over since late janurary (do the math) mostly come in after 12am

-Often times when parents were asked from other siblings about her "scheduled" stays they are unaware till the last minute e.g at night

-Despite the partner leaving house early on a normal working day, gf able to sleep through in the masterbed room until its HER time to leave

- First Day of CNY (Feb) came to visit with the reason for possibly not able to come for subsequent visiting days but still came in the end, stayed over as well in feb.

-The parents are traditional, kind, and heavily conflict-avoidant (they play the "super chill" card just to keep the peace and avoid a blowout)

there were many other cases and scenarios of her bizarre behaviour but shall not be specific and focus on these main points

Feelings? Morals? Judgments? Conclusions?

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u/Itchy-Assistant-46 — 5 days ago