u/Itchy-Housing7450

Im M/22 dating a 21/F for past 3 months where initally we talked in insta and we of same clg and distant mutual friend group so, started talking and within a week or so i came straight and said i like her she was shocked and we contined the call for another half an hour i was so fast coz in that week we did daily all noght calls and stuffs so i thought to come clean coz i dont want “we are frienfs” after soo much efforts

15 days goes by

She texts breaking scilence saying hey!, i tgought she was thinking about me but she later mentioned she texted to get another person number of my class as her teacher gave her some work, i assumed its just lame reason to text me ( i know she likef me too as mutual friemds intel)

So after the long pause of 15 days we cleared and she was like tgis is called communication and she asked again what are we are we friends? And i was like nahhhh i still like u maybe situation ship? She started laughing and was surprised telling i had courage

Since tgen we again resumed talking meeting went on 3 food level dates and few casual meetups near local cafe and stuffs was good even kept secret from mutual friends, untill a day she left for her home town and we had our second gap here we still talked but way less and i was like why am i initating every call and text? Let me she if she does, this moment cooked relationship no text or call for 10 days when i text or ask to meet shes all happy etc but never initate and she even mentioned she revealed to her close friend that we are talking and also told her ex that shes seeing someone else and planning to get into relationship (me) and she said it to me directly

But now its been almost 1 month and we did like 1 call and 2 text from my side which led to usual long text chat. The connection is breaking point on my side but her bday is in 15days idk if i should consider it and wish her take her out or just let it be and fade?

You can ask me more questions regarding tgis for more clarification.

Im M/22 dating a 21/F for past 3 months where initally we talked in insta and we of same clg and distant mutual friend group so, started talking and within a week or so i came straight and said i like her she was shocked and we contined the call for another half an hour i was so fast coz in that week we did daily all noght calls and stuffs so i thought to come clean coz i dont want “we are frienfs” after soo much efforts

15 days goes by

She texts breaking scilence saying hey!, i tgought she was thinking about me but she later mentioned she texted to get another person number of my class as her teacher gave her some work, i assumed its just lame reason to text me ( i know she likef me too as mutual friemds intel)

So after the long pause of 15 days we cleared and she was like tgis is called communication and she asked again what are we are we friends? And i was like nahhhh i still like u maybe situation ship? She started laughing and was surprised telling i had courage

Since tgen we again resumed talking meeting went on 3 food level dates and few casual meetups near local cafe and stuffs was good even kept secret from mutual friends, untill a day she left for her home town and we had our second gap here we still talked but way less and i was like why am i initating every call and text? Let me she if she does, this moment cooked relationship no text or call for 10 days when i text or ask to meet shes all happy etc but never initate and she even mentioned she revealed to her close friend that we are talking and also told her ex that shes seeing someone else and planning to get into relationship (me) and she said it to me directly

But now its been almost 1 month and we did like 1 call and 2 text from my side which led to usual long text chat. The connection is breaking point on my side but her bday is in 15days idk if i should consider it and wish her take her out or just let it be and fade?

You can ask me more questions regarding tgis for more clarification.