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I hope this doesn’t come off as a gatekeeper sounding question, but from reading this subreddit I was surprised to see some comments mentioning their friends and or partners.

This surprised me because one of the things that lead me towards understanding avpd in myself was the common listed traits surrounding difficulty with relationships/friendships/etc. Some even listing complete absence of those things as a sign of avpd.

What I’m wondering is, do you have friends and or relationships? And if you do, do you see it as you overcoming your avpd to build/maintain those relationships? Or is the avpd unrelated in this situation? Or are you able to keep a certain level with your friends?

Sorry again, still trying to understand avpd.

This is honestly the first real glitch in the matrix moment I think I’ve ever had and it’s freaked me out.

So my work area is a constricted space. Just the desk, computer, chair, and trash can. The rest of the room is empty except a small stool. I had brought with me one can of energy drink, one water bottle, and one Snapple bottle.

I’m cleaning up to leave and I throw out the water bottle first. Im holding my phone in one hand, then I grab the can and the Snapple bottle, but I drop the Snapple bottle on the desk to grab the spare bottle cap.

This is when it gets weird.
I look down to screw the cap on the bottle, and the bottle is nowhere to be seen. Not on the desk, not on the floor, not behind the chair. I even dig though the trash to look even though I know I hadn’t thrown anything besides the water. This was legitimately weirding me out and I spend the next close to and hour just looking for it as the clock ticked down. I cannot stress how there is literally nowhere that bottle could have been hiding that I wouldn’t have seen it.

Keep in mind the space where this happened was within a few inches around this desk. Honestly maybe my mind is playing tricks but I feel like I saw some type of small light on the bottom right of the desk right before it disappeared. The part that makes it so strange is that since it’s unique due to being a Snapple cap, it sticks out so much.

“Not having any female friends”
Bruh we live in hell.

Even when you don’t have any “abusive” red flags, you are still cooked because you don’t already have success with women.

Also if she considers it a red flag to have no female friends, what do you think she considers having never had a relationship??? 🚩

From looking at the r/Phimosis subreddit, even they had a topic talking about how they are majority late bloomers.

For those that don’t know what phimosis is, it’s a man who is uncircumcised, but cannot pull their foreskin back for whatever reason. This can complicate sex for men, as it can make it feel painful and lead to injury.

Phimosis men can have medical reasons for not being able to pull their foreskin back, such as it being too tight.

Or they can have psychological problems, which seem the most prevalent. Essentially, their parents never taught them about pulling back their foreskin and hygiene. Maybe their parents are from a culture where it wasn’t taught or whatever.

This is my problem tbh, my parents for some reason never taught me about being uncircumcised, and how you are supposed to pull your foreskin back and keep hygiene. Even though they taught me about other sexual things like stds and gay people. Idk if they ever knew it themselves tbh?

I just compare myself to my friends who I know are circumcised because of religion or whatever. And they never had a problem getting started dating since teen years.