Getting Comfortable in My Own Skin
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Getting Comfortable in My Own Skin

After 25 years together, I recently found out I was cheated on. I’m still trying to make sense of what that means for my relationship and for me personally.

One of the stranger parts has been realizing how little thought I’ve given in decades to how I’m perceived outside of a long-term relationship. Confidence takes a pretty good hit in a situation like this, so I’m trying to get out of my own head a little, remind myself that life continues and figure out who I am at this stage of it.

Posting a picture of myself on Reddit definitely wasn’t on my 2026 bingo card, but here we are.

u/ItsTheWiggles — 18 hours ago
▲ 317 r/AskWomen

Women Who Cheated - What Were You Looking for That You Weren’t Getting and Did You Ever Voluntarily Disclose To Your Partner?

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u/ItsTheWiggles — 8 days ago

What Percentage of Your Partners Were Attentive in Bed?

What percentage of partners have helped you reach orgasm? Additionally, what percentage of your partners would you consider attentive and respectful?

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u/ItsTheWiggles — 1 month ago