Somewhere between who I was and who I’m becoming… I just ride, chasing something I can’t name. -Ellie Jay
Just ride!
Trying to pick my name (Ellie vs Nicki) — would love honest opinions 💕
Hey everyone 💖
I’ve been trying to figure out my name and I’d really appreciate some honest feedback.
For context, the name Ellie has been with me for about 13 years—basically since I first realized I was trans. It means a lot to me, but lately I’ve been feeling like I don’t look like an Ellie anymore, if that makes sense.
Out of nowhere, the name Nicki popped into my head and now I can’t stop thinking about it. Part of me feels like it fits my look/vibe more, but Ellie feels more “me” emotionally.
So I guess I’m stuck between:
• A name that’s been part of my identity for years (Ellie)
• And a name that feels like it might match how I look now (Nicki)
I’d really love to know:
Which name do I look like to you?
(Also open to honest feedback — I can take it 💕)