▲ 147 r/TabbyCats

Oaty turned one!

My friend’s sweet boy, Oaty (short for Oat Milk, named by her young daughters!) turned one last week! I think he has the sweetest, most innocent face ❤️

u/JJackieM89 — 22 days ago
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Separated gosling

I live in a townhouse complex in Minnesota and while walking found a gosling around 6-8 weeks old alone at a pond that its family frequents. There are three flocks of geese with babies that live around here and I saw them. A few houses over by another pond (there are a lot of ponds here). The poor thing keeps trying to make noise but nothing is coming out 😢 Is it likely its family will find it? I’m so sensitive about animals and can’t help but worry.

u/JJackieM89 — 2 months ago

I lost my 15-year-old baby in May, and this is what my best friend gave me

All of this is hand drawn (with some water color, I think) by her step-sister’s husband. He works in graphic design but I told her he should open an Etsy shop and have people submit pictures of their beloved pets, alive or passed. It’s so incredibly special to me and I have it hanging on my wall.

u/JJackieM89 — 2 months ago

Klonopin no longer works for Me.

I’ve been on 2 m Klonopin for years after my dad died. At first it was Amazing. I could actually function. Now, 10 months later, nothing—NOTHING. I’m might as well take nothing a at all. I miss the comfort it gave me. Has anyone has had had anything similar with Klonopin losing effect?

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u/JJackieM89 — 2 months ago

As a millennial, why are there not more young people in positions of power?

Besides Mamdani, Talarico, and Crockett, I don’t know of any other millennials who have an important voice in politics. We’ve had the same old guys in the capital for our entire lives and they’re literally having strokes on camera (i.e. McConnell) and these are the people shaping OUR future and our children’s future! What’s wrong with retiring? Surely they have enough money to buy a nice house by the beach and enjoy their millions. Hell, if I had that much money, I’d never work again, and I’m 37! What’s the point for them? I believe that the people making the laws should be people who have to live to see these changes being implemented. We worked our entire lives to still have white, senile men make decisions for us? It’s 2026, and it’s a shame that elderly men are still in power.

Edit: reading these responses (thank you by the way!) so what happens when all of these older people die and millennials actually become the older generation? Will it be a slow process of integration into power? Because eventually the younger people will HAVE to come into power.

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u/JJackieM89 — 2 months ago

Fiona the aloof meezer reporting for duty!

“I is happy happy purr purr all da time!” 😂

u/JJackieM89 — 2 months ago

My Tuxie Mira passed away last month…

She was 15 and passed suddenly from renal failure. I have lost many people in my life, but losing Mira hurt the most. My best friend has someone in her extended family who is a graphic designer and is an extremely talented artist. She asked him to do this hand-drawn piece for me and I just sobbed when I saw it. You can compare it to the second picture I added of her. It’s now hanging on the wall beside my bed. I miss her so, so much.

u/JJackieM89 — 2 months ago

Lost my Mira, 15, last Tuesday

She had been struggling with urinary infections for the past two months, but last the vet checked, she was all clear. Last Tuesday, she went downhill very fast, and I took her to the ER. The vet did some tests and informed me that she was in complete renal failure. I had the choice to go through with a very expensive overnight treatment that might not work or say goodbye to put her out of her pain. I chose to say goodbye because I couldn’t stand seeing her in pain. I was sobbing the whole time.

For the past week, I have dealt with so much guilt over not catching this sooner. Were there warning signs I hadn’t noticed? Should I have brought her to the vet sooner to get checked out? Mira was everything to me and I vowed to always protect her. I feel like I failed her now. She was just so confused when we said goodbye because of the toxins in her system. Thinking about her last few minutes is unbearable. It feels like I’m broken and can never be the person I was when she was alive. I still have my other cat, who is five, but without Mira I feel incomplete 😢

u/JJackieM89 — 3 months ago

I lost cat and had to quit my job

Two nights ago, I noticed my cat, Mira, wasn’t acting like herself. I called to make a vet appointment for the next day, but they said if it got worse, I should bring her to the ER vet, which I ended up doing. Turns out she was in complete renal failure, but never showed signs of it until that day. The humane thing was to put her down. Two days later I’m still sobbing, no motivation, I even had to quit my job because they would not give me time off since I had only been there 2 months. Mira was my whole heart. She was the BEST cat, got me through so many hard times and family deaths. I could not function in a work setting even if I tried. I have no idea what to do. How do I move on? I still have my other cat, Fiona, a Siamese, and I love her so, so much and want to be there for her, too. It’s like I don’t want to leave her alone. I don’t know how she is processing it. They weren’t super close, but at least they had each other. I feel the need to adopt again, not now, but soon, just so she has another cat around when I’m gone. I don’t know what to do. I can’t function, can’t eat, just feel constant guilt. Mira was always so attuned to my emotions, and slept with her paw on my heart most nights. How do I get through this? I feel guilty for quitting my job, but the demand was insane, and I had no support from anyone there. No one even said they were sorry. And I work in mental health. There’s NO way I could face clients like this; it would be irresponsible and ethically wrong. I feel so useless right now, like I’m failing at everything. Advice appreciated.

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u/JJackieM89 — 3 months ago