u/Jaded_Fee_3530

I keep going back and forth. On the one hand I want something reliable as I use it to go to work, drop off baby to daycare, and round trip 2+ hr trips to visit and check in on my sick and ageing parents, on the other hand I don’t want find myself in this position again. I’ll be letting my current car go as I’m 12k under water and it has some issues. It’s a 2018 crv. Should I just keep it? Finance or new car? Or buy something cash on fb market? What did you do? Any regrets?

Like the title says, I’m considering asking for a divorce. We’ve been married about five years. TBH we married quickly to keep halal, but I had hoped love would grow but it hasn’t. I worry how blindsided and alone he will feel since he just immigrated to the US and isn’t close with his family. We have a one year old. And for me I feel like I’ve been avoiding the inevitable. Anyone been here? He’s a great guy, just not for me 😕

Like the title says, I’m considering asking for a divorce. We’ve been married about five years. TBH we married quickly to keep halal, but I had hoped love would grow but it hasn’t. I worry how blindsided and alone he will feel since he just immigrated to the US and isn’t close with his family. We have a one year old. And for me I feel like I’ve been avoiding the inevitable. Anyone been here? He’s a great guy, just not for me 😕

Anyone else feel guilty spending money on themselves even though they’re the one earning it?
Like I pay every bill, handle every emergency, make sure everyone is taken care of — and then I feel guilty buying myself something without a reason.
Is this just me or is this a breadwinning spouse thing?