Maybe ENFPs need stability more than we think?
Although my boyfriend is an ISTJ and I’m an ENFP, maybe we’re more compatible than people would expect🤔
I used to think I was attracted to chaos, but as I’ve matured, I’ve realized I actually want stability. Having a grounded partner doesn’t make me feel trapped. It actually gives me the freedom to explore and be myself✨✨
Ironically, the more grounded and secure I feel, the freer I become😌
I’ve also noticed that being with someone who naturally uses Te has helped me develop my own. He doesn’t try to change me, but I learn a lot from the way he approaches life💪🏻
Even our conversations reflect this!! I’m usually the one throwing out random ideas or weird scenarios, and somehow he turns them into memes and inside jokes we laugh about for weeks🤣🤣 Maybe that’s why we work so well!! I bring the ideas, and he brings them to life..!!😁
This relationship also made me realize how limiting stereotypes can be. Looking for patterns and understanding them is one thing, if I had judged him based on MBTI or a bad experience with someone else, I probably would’ve missed out on an amazing relationship!!✨✨
A bad experience with one person doesn’t mean everyone with that personality type will be the same. People are individuals first🙂↕️🙂↕️
Has anyone else experienced something similar?