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Do FAs practice what they preach?

My FA presents himself as an ethical and spiritual person. He constantly talks about compassion, non-harm, mindfulness, etc. But, he will not take responsibility for the hurt he caused. Did I fall for a hypocrite or, worse, a liar?

He claims he wants to be friends. I’ve stated my condition — friendship is possible only if he reflects and repairs. Does he want to remain friends to protect his self-image?

This is my first encounter with an FA. I am here to understand and heal. Thanks.

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u/JaneQwerty — 3 days ago