u/Jewellgem74

My daughter has started watching this and described how she's confused on some parts. I've watched this myself but am I right in saying the first episode showed how June lived her life before being kidnapped? The one on Disney, the first episode starts with June, hubby and Hannah were being chased in the woods by another vehicle of men kidnapping her. Then the scene goes to June sitting as a handmade day dreaming/thinking back to the car chase. I feel as though this episode is wrong or missing parts out? I'm positive when I watched the first season years ago it explained why the women were being kidnapped. Also Janine gets her eye took out on the first episode, I'm positive this happened half way through the first season/series? Did i imagine this or is the episodes mucked up?

Hi, my daughters vocational/ educational worker typed out my 17 yr old autistic daughters form. Much to my disagreement I didn't want it done online as I felt the paper form would be better for me so I could go back and fourth and add to it as I have health and memory issues. I felt pressurized by her to hurry up and get it done. I was surprised at how quick it was, she asked my daughter questions. I stated she should put for me to be her appointee as daughter has difficulty in understanding some basic info.

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Worker said no it'll be fine! It wasn't till later on i thought to myself I have no clue whats even typed in that form. She sent me the PDF and I'm so upset. Its hugely contradicting, shes wrote it as if daughter has wrote it. It comes across very articulate but childish. Words in it not even in daughters vocabulary or doesn't know the meaning of. Shes also put in it " my mum bullies me to go for a shower" no words like that came from any of our mouths. Shes wrote nothing of her mental health issues, infact out of all the questions she's only written in it 6 times, the rest have been left unanswered. The bullying part is so damaging and I'm so upset!

I then received a letter for a face to face with daughter, its not happened yet but I phoned up to see if I can become her appointee and how I'm not happy as I hadn't at the time known what was written it. They then stated they'd need to see both of us face to face. I phoned today and asked to withdraw the form as I had now seen what was in it and they said they can't and ill need to have F2F first to see if they'll allow me to be her appointee. I'm so angry with myself for allowing this to happen, with the bullying part in it I'm afraid it'll just look like I'm trying to claim and be greedy. My daughter has had a diagnosis for 4 years and I never bothered about it back then until the worker said she'd be entitled due to her difficulties. She even helped getting her into counseling. Shes now telling me how they don't fund for MH issues so there was no point in putting any of that in which I know is wrong info! She didn't even give me or daughter the option to answer alot of them as she's just skipped them all. I feel shes caused this whole situation more harm than good here. Ill now have to wait for a F2F before I can do another new form but I just feel the waters are now muddied for me and it'll just be a no! Its caused me such a huge anxiety, its keeping me awake at night with worry, anger and her lack of apology. Any advice please?

We have came across a lovely home we're interested in. We got the home report and surprisingly it came back all green's ( number1's). I'm wondering if its worth getting another survey done or not. We are FTB and the house is 75 years old. I'm just abit wary of what to do. Any help or tips would be appreciated. Not sure if it matters or not or if I'm allowed to say but the EA begins with an I. I'm in Scotland. Thanks.

Hi, I sent away a ADP/ pip form 3 weeks ago now. I sent it signed for 2nd class. I know they've received it as seen the signature from royal mail. I was expecting a text or email at least to say they've received it. Is this normal? I'm in Scotland so wondering how long this should usually take to hear if they've accepted me onto it or not.

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