u/Jinglebell727

Image 1 — I've found my people! Here's my newest boulder: a 15.07 ct fancy vivid pink marquise diamond
Image 2 — I've found my people! Here's my newest boulder: a 15.07 ct fancy vivid pink marquise diamond
Image 3 — I've found my people! Here's my newest boulder: a 15.07 ct fancy vivid pink marquise diamond

I've found my people! Here's my newest boulder: a 15.07 ct fancy vivid pink marquise diamond

I posted my engagement and wedding rings on Reddit almost 3 years ago and some people came after me with pitchforks and called my rings tacky. I'm elated to have found my tribe. ❤️

I bought myself a 15.07 ct fancy vivid pink SI2 marquise diamond to celebrate a year of strength and growth after losing my parents. I was worried about the clarity, but I fell in love when I saw the videos. The ring will live on my middle finger on my right hand, but I put all my rings next to each other for the photo. Inside is an engraving saying "I love you" and it's dedicated to myself as I learn about self-love and why it's so important. You'll also see my watch in this photo. Those tiny diamonds on a pink mother of pearl bezel were the very first diamonds I've bought myself. I've leveled up, and I'm quite proud.

Both pink rings are hard to photograph and are much pinker in real life. This is evident in my other posts, but it's hard to capture in the jewelry store.

Here are the links to the other posts, where you'll also see my husband's custom pink diamond ring and more photos of Chou Chou and Heavy Hatchling:

https://www.reddit.com/r/EngagementRings/s/u1hn95UoWv

https://www.reddit.com/r/Diamonds/s/NMxQrSly4X

If you don't want to visit the other links, here are the specs for the jewelry lovers (from left to right):

  1. Chou Chou (aka pink rock candy): 5.96 ct fancy vivid pink VS1 pear, two 0.5 ct fancy vivid pink VS1 round brilliants, about 1.04 ct of pink melee on the halo, hidden halo, and on the side profile, and two .01 ct rubies. 18k rose gold band.

  2. Ken: She's just Ken! Anywhere else she'd be a ten! 🎶🎵 But here she's a 15.07 ct fancy vivid pink marquise SI2 on a 14k rose gold band. The bezel faces up white because of how pink the diamond is. I wanted to try out the bezel but it's... not enough for me. I'll be keeping the bezel but I'm planning on adding two small white diamonds on the side so it's a trilogy bezel with a tulip basket, as well as a thicker tapered band. Design suggestions are welcome!

  3. Heavy Hatchling (aka big chonker): 9.24 ct I VS2 pear (our destination wedding was on 09/24), two 1 ct E and F VVS2 baguette side stones, two 0.25 ct round brilliants. 18k yellow gold band.

This subreddit is like r/bald but for big rock lovers. I'm glad we have this safe space. ❤️

u/Jinglebell727 — 2 days ago

Patiently waiting for my rock to arrive in the mail...

Took me 2 months of searching, and I finally found her. 🥹

Shout-out to Ray from Altura Diamonds for helping me find her! He's the most patient online jeweler I've ever had the pleasure to work with. ❤️

u/Jinglebell727 — 4 days ago

Celebrating a year since I cut off contact with my mother

It's bittersweet. I now know she's beyond help, and cutting her off has been the best thing for me. But I'm also still a little sad that I could never have a movie-like caring mother.

I have my mom to thank for cutting her and my dad off. This time last year, I took her out for a fancy lunch and she and my dad arrived 30 minutes early and ate a ton of food without waiting for me because they knew it was on my dime. Then they made fun of me for being upset. Then my mom told me her $2 Temu LED product is better than the $200 one I got for her from Ulta. Then they stole, sold, donated, and threw away all my belongings. AGAIN.

I can't believe it's been a year since this all happened. I made it out alive, happier than ever, but I'll admit I sometimes still wish I had real, loving parents. Either way, I'm glad they truly fucked me over one last time before I decided to cut them off. I have learned a lot, but most importantly I've developed self-worth that they've always tried to deprive me of.

To everyone here feeling something similar, you're not alone. You did the right thing. You are loved, and you matter. 🫂

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u/Jinglebell727 — 2 months ago