u/Jjosein

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i recently bought an external hard drive for my pc to download video games on it as my pc don't have enough storage. I basically play almost everyday so i use it everyday. Is it more damaging to let the hard drive linked to my pc 24/24 or to reconnect it every time i wanna use it ?

I (18F) woke up to the surprise of having passed my driving test; my girlfriend (19F) has been waiting for me to become her personal driver since she doesn't have a license herself. I was planning to pick her up from work as a surprise, but she lives literally a two-minute walk away, so that’s kind of a letdown. Plus, her schedule is unpredictable, and she never knows exactly when she’ll finish.
Do you have any cool ideas for how to break the news to her?

Je ( F18) me suis réveillée avec la surprise d'avoir le permis, ma meuf (F19) n'attendait que ça d'avoir un chauffeur comme elle n'a pas le permis. Je comptais aller la chercher au travail pour lui faire la surprise mais elle habite prem deg à 2 deux minutes à pied de son travail, c'est un peu nul. En plus ses horaires sont aléatoires et elle sait jamais à quelle heure elle finit.
Est ce que vous avez des idées cool pour lui annoncer ?

I've been dating my girlfriend for 2 years now. We're happy together bla bla bla but recently we had a conversation about our future. She mentioned she absolutely wanted two kids and she really doesn't see herself not being a mom.

I, don't feel like i could be a parent for many reasons ; first of all i'm rlly awkward with kids, i rarely succeed on making them laugh or entertaining them.
Then as i'm autistic i'm pretty mentally unstable, strongly react to constant noises , have depressive and anxious tendencies etc . Moreover my girlfriend have OCDs with depressive and anxious tendencies too. I don't feel like this would be the perfect environment for a child to grow up in. Plus my girlfriend wish to be the one to carry the baby ( great point cause i don't want to be pregnant), the problem is that in her family EVERYONE is neurodivergent or dys, and omg i'm not ready to take care about it. ( maybe it's kinda hypocritical from me but it would be too much of a charge ).

And last reason i simply never wished to dedicate my whole life and money to another human being

So right now i just wish that the political environment to be even worst so that she finally change her decision lol . She clearly told me that it will be a problem if i don't want kids so i don't know what to do. Should we break up now ?

hi i accidentally left a plastic kitchen bell on a very hot pan. I came back a few minutes later and now the bell has melted all over the pan and on the hotplate. How can i remove it without damaging the pan ?
It was so stupid omg and my food is ruined lol

i'm a 18y/o F and since my childhood a lot of people have been suspecting me of autism. I'm not going to describe precisely ALL the issues i encountered but here's the most importants ; i struggle socially, sensory issues, poor eye contact, anxiety or depressive episodes, daydreaming ( i mean rlly for hours ), passions like birds, video games, insects (...), struggling to manage emotions, echolalias etc...

I always noticed a difference between me and other people but i always thought everyone felt the same way. Moreover even if i was struggling with so many things I always told myself it was rather common issues everyone encountered or that I was just a dramatic aah. Until many people in different social circles started saying they seriously thought i was on the spectrum, even people i barely know . Recently i started seeing a therapist specialised in ASDs and he asked me how a diagnosis would change anything. I actually don't know, because i mam the way i am and a diagnosis wouldn't change that. But i know i still want to know if i am actually on the spectrum or not, however idk why. If you are diagnosed or want to be, what pushed you to do it ? Idc if it's a logical or emotional reason, any testimony could help me to understand my feelings