u/Jtyorked

Hello, I wanted to know if I’m overreacting. My boyfriend told me today that we should be on a break and take a break from each other because we need our space due to the arguing. I said, “ OK, I’ll give him the break.” I told him I’m not going to text first, and if he texts me, I’m not going to answer. I just want to get a clear thought. I don’t want to text or talk because if he says we’re on a break, I’m going to respect that. I’m also going to put that in consideration. I agree with him, so I’ll give us some time. I was texting and talking, which defeats the purpose of a break. We’re still getting our feelings involved, and we’re not having any space from each other. He randomly texted me and said, “Hey, I just want things to get better.” I gave him a 👍, and he then replied, “ I have some paragraphs I’m going to send to you at 2 a.m.” I told him I’m good. He said, “OK, I’ll just delete them.” I asked them what’s considered a break to you. He said, “A break from talking to each other for a bit.” I said, “ I’m just trying to respect his wishes, and that a paragraph is only going to get my feelings more involved, so it’s best if we just take the break.” I told him to leave me be because he’s seen hurt by it, and I want to know if I’m a bad girlfriend or if I’m very rude and nasty or if I’m the problem or am I doing right?