u/Jumpy_Departure4946

I have a great provider man who takes amazing care of me, is obsessed with me, loves to spend money on me and I love my life with him BUT he was a binge drinking problem. Drinks too much and makes a complete fool out of him and I when he does just by acting sloppy, will drive drunk if he’s alone, and the way he acts gives me major second hand embarrassment. What kind of flaws are okay to overlook? Is this worth addressing? Do we think he’s allowed to drink how he wants since he’s providing? Idk what to think I hate it

I have a great provider man who takes amazing care of me, is obsessed with me, loves to spend money on me and I love my life with him BUT he was a binge drinking problem. Drinks too much and makes a complete fool out of him and I when he does just by acting sloppy, will drive drunk if he’s alone, and the way he acts gives me major second hand embarrassment. What kind of flaws are okay to overlook? Is this worth addressing? Do we think he’s allowed to drink how he wants since he’s providing? Idk what to think I hate it