u/JuryFantastic6039

Okay okay. So first off, I already know that this post is off, im a non trans guy, posting in a trans fitness space, why ever would I do that? Thats because of one reason: my body. You see, for whatever reason, despite being a guy I don’t have anywhere near fat or skeletal proportions. Sure I don’t have breasts, but I am quite curvy (I have a 31 inch waist and 41 inch hips), and lowkey I have no idea what to do. All fitness advice for people I can see is tailored towards people that are either born feminine, or born masculine, so idk what I’m supposed to do here, and I was hoping if people on this Reddit might have tips. My problem is that no matter what I exercise, my thighs and seat are pretty large, and my waist is thin, so I end up still looking quite feminine. Basically idk how to look masculine, my face doesn’t help since I’ve been told it’s androgynous, and I was hoping this subreddit might have thoughts
Edit: also, if anyone knows if an even better subreddit to ask this in that’d be great!

Okay, so first up, by curvy, I mean LITERALLY CURVY, not bulky or overweight. I'm about 5'10 and 160 pounds, but there's a few annoying things. My measurements are: Neck circumference: 13.2
Shoulders length: 14
Chest circumference: 35
Natural waist circumference: 31 in
Lower waist circumference: 34
Hips: 41 inch
Thigh circumference: 26

I don't have everything, like arms, but they're pretty proportional to my upper body. I'm almost entirely sedentary as well. The issue for my specifically is figuring out what to wear in menswear that's fashionable: My seat is too large for baggy clothes, and also too large for medium or tight clothes. Most rigid pants are INCREDIBLY uncomfortable and tug awkwardly at any size on my thighs and glutes, but if they're cut to proportion they highlight the lower body, which when combined with a very thin waist and average upper body, it doesn't work as well for menswear. The only option I can even think of (and the thing I do) is usually something along the lines of wearing a jacket to structure my top and just saying screw it, and wearing normal jeans, but it isn't a very flattering outfit. Basically, I feel stuck when it comes to this.

Edit: one other thing, I'm not short and stocky, in fact my torso is fairly short and I have longer legs, which just adds insult to injury :( oh and a lot of this is skeletal, along with it being crazy odd fat distribution. My hip bone is just really large, and I just happen to store fat in my seat and lower body, and not my upper. I’ve been mistaking as FTM trans before, since I have a pretty soft face

Help, I’m a guy and I have a unique body

Advice for a curvy guy