I need advice on how to go about these positions. I’ve read on this subreddit and even online how positions like doggy is one of the best positions for plus size people, but it seems near impossible for us??? For further context, I’m about 260lbs with a big butt and my bf is about 160lbs average size.
I’ve gained weight and feel awkward/clumsy when having sex. My bf and I were trying to do the cowgirl position (one of my personal favorites prior to weight gain), but every time I angle to slip him in, once I get near the base of his penis, it feels like it bends out of place and then slips out (sometimes painfully). I kept trying over and over again, but just couldn’t manage with the same issue. What can I do?
We are also having difficulty with doggy style. As much as I try to curve my back and perk my butt up, he can’t slip in at the right angle. What are we doing wrong there?