I have to break up with her, right? 😔
We share a mac and I opened the Mac and her photos were up, and there were some recent saucy pics that she had taken that she had not sent me - I asked her about it and she said she “sent 1 of the photos on bumble BFF” (lol). We were kind of in the middle of an argument and she said she just wanted some validation and then deleted him immediately after.
At this point I felt like the trust was broken so I invaded her privacy. I found Reddit chats which were very explicit and she often gave them her discord username. I went to the discord site and her credentials were saved. She had tried to delete her discord account but I was able to recover it and see the chats, the videos they shared and them talking about what they did on camera.
I had the engagement ring bought and the proposal all planned. Gutted.
Thankfully I was able to return the ring 1 day before the return policy expired.
I feel like such an idiot. At no point did I ever question her commitment to me. We talked about marriage, I knew she was going to say yes and I thought she was going to be really happy with the proposal/ring etc.
Meanwhile she’s masturbating on webcam with creepy guys she met off Reddit while they call her a good girl - while I’m sleeping in the other room.