Slippery slope of snooping
Hi All,
Me (M43) and my long term partner (F38) of 10 years have sex roughly once a year. I've been a part of dead bedroom reddit groups for a while but recently I've started to come round to the idea that maybe there is someone else in the picture that is using up her sexual energy etc.
I think I trust her, but lately she's been working out, buying a few new clothes, and she's saying stuff like "we should have a weekend to ourselves every now and then". We have a 4 year old child together, and one would look after the child whilst the other one visits a friend for the weekend etc. Our sex life is still zero.
I've just purchased an auto recording device to stick in her car but I think that's seriously breaching her trust.
Do I have grounds to investigate further with this device based on my situation?